Fadeux
Intelligent Moron
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I didn't do the whole thread. I don't have time for that.
What I get from it, is that the OP is a burden, not a declaration of supremecy. I have dealt with many friends that think their lives are set, and out of sheer ignorance, I would call them out on it. Not to hurt them, or prove myself right, or above them, but just to convey the truth that I see.
I have never been successful at breaking up a marriage before the wedding day, but I have yet to see any marriage I "bet against" succeed after only a year or two. I'm no love genius. I know less about love than anyone, and these were GOOD friends, who I conveyed these honest feelings too. Not one took me seriously, and here we stand.
I lost good friends for being honest, and they lost their marriage because they stone walled me. It's not about winning in situations like this. I can be wrong, it's happened many a time. But I expect a listening ear from my best friends, and sometimes, they will just do what they want, and find any and every justification to block me out.
I'm not a prophet, I am not all seeing, Hell, I don't really know anything, but from experience, what I see in people sometimes, being right is a burden, not a blessing. Thats all I think the OP was saying in the OP.
Were I wrong every time, I would have a lot more friends right now, and a good friend is SO much better than the feeling of "being right."
What I get from it, is that the OP is a burden, not a declaration of supremecy. I have dealt with many friends that think their lives are set, and out of sheer ignorance, I would call them out on it. Not to hurt them, or prove myself right, or above them, but just to convey the truth that I see.
I have never been successful at breaking up a marriage before the wedding day, but I have yet to see any marriage I "bet against" succeed after only a year or two. I'm no love genius. I know less about love than anyone, and these were GOOD friends, who I conveyed these honest feelings too. Not one took me seriously, and here we stand.
I lost good friends for being honest, and they lost their marriage because they stone walled me. It's not about winning in situations like this. I can be wrong, it's happened many a time. But I expect a listening ear from my best friends, and sometimes, they will just do what they want, and find any and every justification to block me out.
I'm not a prophet, I am not all seeing, Hell, I don't really know anything, but from experience, what I see in people sometimes, being right is a burden, not a blessing. Thats all I think the OP was saying in the OP.
Were I wrong every time, I would have a lot more friends right now, and a good friend is SO much better than the feeling of "being right."