Honestly, if it were me, I wouldn’t play along. I would continue to address them however I like in my own home, and if they don’t want to come visit, then I would ok with that, as well.She’s 26 and has also had open influences. she played the boy/girl card since about 15 years old. I’ve never understood it and really have no interest to no offense to her but I’m afraid she is offended that I don’t care to learn all about it…
I would rather alienate a relative, than play this stupid game.