What do you say to people who question how much you smoke?

[SkysTheLimit24]

I smoke as long as I'm not at work. So does my boyfriend.

We both drove back "home" for a few weeks for a funeral and so he could take care of a legal issue and he's going to be gone another 8 days still so I smoke all day from the time I wake up and I take a massive gravity bong rip before bed so I stay asleep and not have nightmares(that's a whole nother story).

I'm staying at my moms and she's been questioning how much I smoke.
I'm 24, I'm old enough, it's legal here.
I've been up and functioning and doing things.

I'm on vacation, I've been wake and baking, I'm taking advantage of the only responsibilities I have right now being taking care of my self and two dogs.
I have 8 more days to get a few loads of laundry done, my car cleaned and repacked that's it.

It keeps me calm and from crying about my boyfriend being two hours away in some jail for something he didn't even do and took a plea on because the justice system never works. 2/10 days down but still ive never been through this before it's hard.
She should be happy if I'm calm right?
What do I even say to her to make her understand?

 

[WeedHopper]

I tell them to kiss my *** and get a life.

 

[7greeneyes]

I tell them to go procreate themselves....plus idk anyone who doesn't or hasn't smoked mj....

 

[orangesunshine]

sounds like mom suffers from "refer madness" propaganda---imo---out of respect as it is her home---i would not be blowing bong hits in her face or smoking doobies around her---not saying a walk outside to burn a fatty shouldn't be done on the :20 of every hour---just keep it out of her face---pure respect same as i'd do in the company of teens and children---on that note it's time :48:

 

[ShecallshimThor]

:yeahthat:

Even ask her to explain her issues, try and educate her on what an amazing plant this is and take her on the Internet show her how many people who it helps.

 

[7greeneyes]

or be your own person, tell her/them it's none of their business if anyone says anything and smoke away from ppl that'll not want to be around any sort of smoke.

If you're moved out on your own, you're more then old enough to make these kind of choices on your own.

 

[Irish]

have some respect for your mother...does she come to your home and disrespect you...just saying...take the time you have left there alone with her to build your relationship. family first...one love...

 

[pcduck]

sounds like mom suffers from "refer madness" propaganda---imo---out of respect as it is her home---i would not be blowing bong hits in her face or smoking doobies around her---not saying a walk outside to burn a fatty shouldn't be done on the :20 of every hour---just keep it out of her face---pure respect same as i'd do in the company of teens and children---on that note it's time :48:

:goodposting:

:bong:

 

[Irish]

:48:

 

[SkysTheLimit24]

have some respect for your mother...does she come to your home and disrespect you...just saying...take the time you have left there alone with her to build your relationship. family first...one love...

She doesn't oppose it. She'll smoke from time to time. One or two hits and she's done and all we have to do is smoke on the balcony.

She'll come out there and sit with me and talk to me about it.
I've been high for the past two weeks straight so far. I want to set a record.

 

[SkysTheLimit24]

My favorite part about all this is my perception of time is off I'm so high.
I have a countdown app to when I go pick my boyfriend up, so I check it from time to time and every time I'm like woah dude it's starting to go by fast. 7 more days tomorrow!!!!

 

[ShOrTbUs]

you should show her this thread, and make your feelings heard.

did you know that 70% of communication between humans is perceived not as intended. communication is key is any type of relationship.


:48:

 

[The Hemp Goddess]

I am more concerned about you sitting around crying about your boyfriend. Get a grip--8 days is such a short time. No offense, but if you are 24 you are need to act 24 and not 14. And if you were my daughter, that would be my concern. However, understand that your mom is just concerned about you. If you act like an adult, I am betting that she will treat you like an adult. Like anything though, don't overdo.

 

[SmokinMom]

I am more concerned about you sitting around crying about your boyfriend. Get a grip--8 days is such a short time. No offense, but if you are 24 you are need to act 24 and not 14. And if you were my daughter, that would be my concern. However, understand that your mom is just concerned about you. If you act like an adult, I am betting that she will treat you like an adult. Like anything though, don't overdo.

I'm so glad somebody said it. I agree with thg 100%.

 

[cubby]

You think it's bad now...he's just in jail. What are you gonna' do when he's in ....? Just sayin'......

 

[SkysTheLimit24]

You think it's bad now...he's just in jail. What are you gonna' do when he's in ....? Just sayin'......

He won't be.
This was over some ** traffic ticket.
After this it's all over and he gets his license back and we go about our lives.

 

[Auburn1985]

I am more concerned about you sitting around crying about your boyfriend. Get a grip--8 days is such a short time. No offense, but if you are 24 you are need to act 24 and not 14. And if you were my daughter, that would be my concern. However, understand that your mom is just concerned about you. If you act like an adult, I am betting that she will treat you like an adult. Like anything though, don't overdo.

Yeah, what THG said...

And if you're smoking that much at 24, what shape will your lungs be in at 44?

It kinda sorta maybe sounds like you've become too dependent on marijuana just to handle the normal pressures of life, instead of using it in a recreational or justifiably medical manner. I think your mom is right, and I think you should seriously reassess why and how much you smoke. I think you're at least mentally addicted, if not physically addicted as well, to smoking every chance you get. Which is not good.

I'm a dad and marijuana smoker myself, so I can see it from both perspectives.

Good luck.

 

[WeedHopper]

One word "Drama:!!!!

 

[SkysTheLimit24]

One word "Drama:!!!!

Uh yeah.
I hate drama.

I'm going to go and try and stay with my boyfriends parents.
His dad is retired and stays home and isn't much of a talker, he smokes too.
I could sit and smoke and I'll be treated like I'm 24. His parents won't ask me stupid questions like who am I texting and would make me a key.

His parents house is so nice and quiet and his parents are normal humans.

 

[ozzydiodude]

:confused2: sure your not 14yrs old?