A clasic example why WE (the mods) choose safe for sorry. We want to prevent this kind of behavier and that's we came up with all the rules.
You think when this site was started we have made a set of rules because we don't like the duscussion of some topics? No guys, we've tried everything, we even had a forum for legalization. We don't have that anymore because we have mods that care, they want to keep this forum classy and they do work really hard for it. WITHOUT any PAYMENT! Just their own time.
We have had certain times that we all want to pack our bags and CLOSE the forum. Yes I have been thinking of it, and it seems to be coming back every now and then these kind of threads starting again. We have started this forum for a friendly group of people sharing and exchanging information.
I really had no clue it would come this far, it's like we're politicians running a country at the moment. We try to do best for our place but we don't want to hurt anyone and then we come up with new rules and then new posts show up how this forum was and how it's now and that they don't like it.
You REALLY think we want to reply again and again to these threads? We really have a lot of better things to do in life. We don't want to defend why we change the rules or do any mod action, really!
Believe me, the MODS here CARE for all of us on this forum. I must say we carefully choose our moderators. And that's why we have suchs a good bunch of moderators doing work for free, because they love the topic.
I learned the hard way. It was my first mistake by taking up some kid to be a mod. He didn't do his job, he took advantage of of being a mod. So, he was history pretty soon. I learned not too choose a moderator quickly, it takes time to see the true value of someone.
I think we going to make a FAQ out of this. Because people don't seem to know why certain threads get deleted or closed. Why some posts get edited or deleted.
Whenever a thread like this shows up we point them to the FAQ and they can read why we do things we think it's best. And thread will be closed without dicussion.
Our mods get bashed by our members because they try to do good things. You think that's a nice compliment to them?
If it gets so far that our moderators leave, then I will close the forum and then we might all be better of.
Keep it civilized and let us be adults that can discuss things without acting like a child.
As we're growing we get more good members but also more bad members. We have to live with this, it's the way it works. So, if we al do our best to keep this place cool then we all have a better time here.
Peace