Sorry Jan. 
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He is 88 and very tired of cancer so Even though I want him to get better it is the best for him. I know he is suffering and always with a smile on his face. I am not looking forward to this next chapter.Sorry Jan.
I've dealt with it more times than I want to think about.
I watched my Father,Mother,Sister,and Grandfather die. Fking sucks.
I'm the last of my immediate family.
Hang in there Jan. Only time can heal those wounds.
I have to totally put it out of my mind to handle it. I feel guilty sometimes because I don't think about them very much but it's my way of dealing with loosing someone I love. Other wise I would be a miserable bastard. It's also very bad for your heart.
A broken heart is a real thing and can kill you. That's why a lot of couples who have been together a long time die right after they loose their spouse.
So sorry Jan. Just know we are here for you.
I watched my Father,Mother,Sister,and Grandfather die. Fking sucks.
I'm the last of my immediate family.
Hang in there Jan. Only time can heal those wounds.
I have to totally put it out of my mind to handle it. I feel guilty sometimes because I don't think about them very much but it's my way of dealing with loosing someone I love. Other wise I would be a miserable bastard. It's also very bad for your heart.
A broken heart is a real thing and can kill you. That's why a lot of couples who have been together a long time die right after they loose their spouse.
So sorry Jan. Just know we are here for you.
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When I moonlighted as an assistant sexton, I had a chance between the service and the coverup to read the stones. Women can live without men. On the most part, men can't live without women. If the man went first, most times the woman would make it another 20+ years. If the woman went first, the man went within 4 years or less. I've seen them die weeks after their wives, and less than six months was common.
There are exceptions, but that was the general rule.
There are exceptions, but that was the general rule.
Good thing about if Dad passes first Mom has dementia. She wont remember most days. I am not looking forward to breaking the news over and over though. Im a tough B itch. I will manage. Mom needs me so at least theres that.
So sorry,
Thanks fir the nice warm hug I needed itSo sorry,
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That's where a little white lie can be forgiven. "He was up here yesterday to see you. Don't you remember?"
That's better than seeing her go through hell every time she hears about his death.
My Mom had dementia. Somedays, I was me. Somedays, I was Carl, her husband/my Father. Somedays, I was her favorite brother, Jim. I didn't mind. They were all people she loved.
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