Keef, that whole black hole/ time space continuum is hard for me to accept, let alone explain. The boson particle has mass and a spin resonance. As it begins to travel, it attracts other particles. Due to the number of particles accumulating around the boson, the boson particle acquires a mass greater than normal, in physical terms. I hope that helps some.
I had a meltdown tonight. I had just had enough of all the crap in my life. I came home and started pacing and couldn't stop until I yelled at the top of my lungs for 5 minutes straight. I cooked dinner, made coffee...then dumped it all down the sink and threw the dishes in the trash and put 357 through the stainless frying pan. My son freaked out, the dogs went nuts, and I went for a walk. Its taken an hour to calm down. I'm still not right yet...still just paying for my sins in a previous life...