I can only imagine what he said to you SM, I've had some doozy of messages from fellows on the boards, thank goodness we have our good guys who step in and help us out. I had one last week that was written like a penthouse letter. (not here).
Maybe he didn't know I was a girl because of the Melvan, because I didn't get a love letter, wonder if I should feel slighted? LOL
The sad part of that flowering question, was that all these people posted before me with all this seriousness, like "you'll get less stress if you go to 18/6 for 2 weeks, then 15/9, then 12/12" I'm thinking 6 weeks more to 12/12, ummm, NOT!