IMHO wait until they are rootbount to start feeding more often. If you say the rockwool is staying soaked right up until they are getting fed again, that is fine. They need to dry out A BIT for the roots to grow and search for more to drink. When the roots are coming out of the rockwool, step it up a few notches and water at least 3 or more times a day.
If I were you I'd give those things pure ph'd water and move the lights up until they get comfortable again. If you keep them stressed out the growth will be a fraction of how they should be growing.
I have a grow with some seedlings in a similar situation. I accidentally gave too much nutes and the light fell causing them all to burn and look like yours do. They're in their 3rd week and they're finally starting to take off again.
By now they should be 6" tall at least, and they're only on their 2nd set of leaves. Drop the nutes and keep the temp as low as possible, they'll recover in no time!