benny is staying on the couch today. I wish it was couchlock, but I am sick. Sinus headache and cold, sore throat. Couldn't sleep, but my dogs are happy. They get to stay in today,too. I wish they can load the woodstove, too. benny's new Year's wish is to have as little drama here as possible. This is crunch time, folks. We either hold on and build this place back up, or we watch the next big migration to other sites of the core members. I was very surprised to find so many "regulars" on another site last night. I am not good with change, but I do not hang around places full of bickering for long.