I agree. It's family and it goes both ways. He's way more important than the plants....but from his side, you need to be more important than the plants. That's just one of those things that you need to stand strong on your reason for growing it. For me, when a family member found out I grew, very religious bible believing.........I explained that, I don't sell it and it's just for my meds to keep me away from narcotics. I'd rather grow it than making that weekly phone call to meet somewhere to buy smoke that may not even be what I need for pain. That person understood and has even encouraged me to a degree. She will never try it, but she's actually glad I chose it over the pills. Just be educated with your approach Make it a personal reason that you are passionate about.